My Daughter and her Grandpa Relationship

Thayeden with her Grandpa
My daughter who is 2 years and 4 months old, given a choice to choose between us, she instantly rejects her Grandma and her Mom. When it comes to choosing between her Grandpa and her Apa, she reluctantly chooses her Apa first and Grandpa next. The bond between her and Grandpa, the care they both share, the understanding they possess, the language they talk, the action they do, are all hard for me to understand. They both cope up very impressively. She very well knows how to make him engage with her play toys. She cares him to the extent of kissing him, hugging him and teasing him. They are really bonded and they make a perfect friend. She has no hesitation to ask him anything and I see him obediently following the command. Whenever she got to do something that will result in our scolding, she holds her Grandpa’s hand and drags him to the bedroom. That may be one reason to love him. She calls him “Maii-May, Maii-May” and if there wasn’t any response she calls him “Maii-May Duba”.

She usually says her Grandpa to stay and Grandma to leave when asked. She goes beyond, for her Grandpa to sneak quietly for a bathroom. When she eats, she makes sure her Grandpa is eating too. She ties her Grandpa with her Bib same as herself. The first thing she does in the morning is to search her Grandpa, making sure he has not left. She makes her Grandpa carry her Baby Toy, she combs her Grandpa and covers his head with her towel. She makes him jump from the table, she makes him pull the carpet while she was sitting on it. She makes him ride her and she does make him cycle her.

They together are a perfect companion. They share the warmth, love, and ship that can be defined by itself. I sincerely wish them a good health and happiness always. May the bond they share, always be the same and the love they share be infinity as she grows. 

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